Civil Service Sports Council: Six Webcasts for International Men's Day
2020-11-19 10:00 - 16:00 (Europe/London) | Online
Thursday 19th November

10.00am – Introduction to International Men’s Day
11.00am – Scott Personal Story
12.00pm – Chris Personal Story
1.00pm – CS Local North West
2.00pm – Steven Personal Story
3.00pm – Dan Personal Story

https://www.cssc.co.uk/events/54970505/mental-health-week-with-cssc-live-webcasts

Masculinity in the Workplace Conference 2020
2020-11-19 10:00 - 16:30 | Online
About this Event

Welcome to the Masculinity in the Workplace conference 2020 ‘Virtual Edition’ which will be taking place on the 19th November in conjunction with International Men’s Day.
“ Masculinity in the workplace consistently has more white men attending than any other diversity/inclusion event. Bravo. Now use it to drive change.”
After the success of the last two events, we have taken up the challenge to truly drive change at a leadership level. For us, leadership is not about the corner office. It’s about doing the right thing. It’s about role modelling change and attracting others to follow suit. We need more courageous leadership right now. From everyone.
Put simply, our current leaders don’t always have the insight or skills to lead diverse and inclusive teams. The skillset at the top needs to change. Come along and learn these skills, and be inspired by those showing leadership in 2020.
Join us for a day of panels, keynote speakers and workshops where we will explore:

What we can learn from covid19 about modern leadership
How people cope and thrive when their version of masculinity is at odds with the dominant version of masculinity
Why we still see vulnerability as a weakness when it is fundamental to inclusive leadership
How we can create more empathetic leaders
How we can build our own cultural intelligence to ensure that workplaces are inclusive
How traditional constructs around masculinity getting in the way of us being anti-racist
How we can break down the barriers that make it hard for men to get support

SPEAKERS

We have a fantastic lineup of speakers including:

Christian Thor Larsen, Vice President, LEGO retail
Gareth Thomas, Former professional rugby player, sporting legend and advocate of gay rights
Grace Tulip, Research Manager, Opinium
Leendert Den Hollander, Vice President & General Manager, Coca-Cola European Partners
Nishma Robb, Marketing Director, Google
Nora Bank, Change Maker, Utopia
Robyn Wilder, Journalist & Author. Columnist for Huffington Post UK Parents
Stuart Heritage, Journalist & Author. Previous author of The Guardian’s ‘Man With a Pram’ column

More speakers to be announced soon.

AGENDA
10:15 Introduction and welcome – Daniele Fiandaca & Roxanne Hobbs
10:30 Keynote: Gareth Thomas will tell us his story about being the first high profile sportsman in the world to come out as gay whilst still playing.
11:00 Break
11:15 Research findings from this year’s Masculinity in the Workplace survey presented by Nora Bank and Grace Tulip. With thanks to Opinium
11:30 A fireside chat hosted by Roxanne Hobbs with Robyn Wilder and Stuart Heritage discussing gender, parenting and how we can prevent ourselves from reverting to stereotypes in times of crisis
12:15 Lunch
13:15 Interactive Workshops covering; Masculinity, Leadership, Empathy, Vulnerability, Mental Health and Unconscious Bias. More details below.
14:45 Break
15:00 Keynote: Speaker to be announced soon!
15:30 A panel hosted by Nadya Powell discussing how to be an inclusive leader in a pandemic. Our panelists are: Christian Thor Larsen, Leendert Den Hollander & Nishma Robb.
16:15 Closing comments
16:30 End

WORKSHOPS
Our highly experienced facilitators:

Adé Adeniji , Coach at The Hobbs Consultancy
Emma Mainoo, Partner and Head of the Mental Health Practice at Utopia
Daniele Fiandaca, Co-Founder of Utopia
Nadya Powell , Co-founder of Utopia
Roxanne Hobbs, Founder of The Hobbs Consultancy
Tolu Farinto, Change-Maker at Utopia

Bring a Butty with Men's Sheds Cymru for International Men's Day
2020-11-19 11:00 - 12:00 | Online
To celebrate International Men’s Day we would like you to bring a butty to our Zoom coffee morning.

We all know someone that uses email or social media, but has not tried using Zoom.

Why not encourage them to come and join us?

Joining us online brings all the benefits of shedding from the comfort of your own homes.

This event is open to anyone, so please share.

I ddathlu Diwrnod Rhyngwladol y Dynion, hoffem i chi ddod â ‘chyfaill’ (ffrind) i’n bore coffi ar Zoom.

Rydym i gyd yn adnabod rhywun sy’n defnyddio e-bost neu gyfryngau cymdeithasol ond nad ydynt wedi ceisio defnyddio Zoom.

Beth am eu hannog nhw i’n hymuno?

Mae ymuno gyda ni ar-lein yn dod â’r holl fanteision rhyngweithio o gysur eich cartrefi.

Mae’r digwyddiad hwn ar agor i unrhyw un, felly rhannwch os gwelwch yn dda.

https://www.facebook.com/events/410696126753880

RAF Mental Health and Gender Networks - I Hear You Man
2020-11-19 11:00 - 12:00 | Online
Join our webinar on the importance of men talking and listening about mental health issues.
Guest Speaker: Andy Palmer (former CEO of Aston Martin)

Book Launch: The Varied Origins of the Cyber Men
2020-11-19 12:00 | Online
Lisa Ventura
Following on from the huge success of my first book “The Rise of the Cyber Women: Volume One”, I’m very proud to announce that I have started work on compiling another book to be published on Kindle Direct publishing, and I’m seeking submissions from men in the cyber security industry to be included in it.
“The Varied Origins of the Cyber Men: Volume One” will be a collection of inspiring stories and accounts from men in the cyber security and technology industries who are pioneers and leading the way in helping to protect the world from the growing cyber threat. It is hoped that this book will feature men in the cyber security industry from all over the world.
Those who are included and featured in the book will give their hints, tips and advice to those who are looking to pursue a career in cyber security and technology or change their career path into cyber security and technology.
I am particularly looking for men to include in the book who haven’t had a linear path into the cyber security industry, who got into the industry despite not having a technical background or those who have overcome much adversity to get to where they are today.
All proceeds from this book once costs are covered (such as proof reading costs) will be split equally between all contributors included in the book.

https://lisaventura.co.uk/call-for-chapters-the-varied-origins-of-the-cyber-men-volume-one/

Male of the Year Awards in Northampton
2020-11-19 12:00 | Online
Northampton Borough Council are wonderful supporters of International Men’s Day -every year they hold events and 2020 is not different.

Next month’s International Men’s Day 2020 will be marked by honouring those inspiring male role models who have made a significant difference to their local communities during a testing year.

Today nominations opened for Male Role Model of the Year Award 2020 on 19 November.
This year’s awards – which will take place virtually – aim to recognise the important contributions local men and boys make in their communities, families, schools and workplaces.
Northampton Borough Council is now calling on residents, businesses, schools and community groups to help with the search by nominating inspirational people in their lives – particularly those who have gone above and beyond during a period when many families have been isolated due to the ongoing coronavirus pandemic.
Councillor Anna King, Cabinet member for community engagement and safety, said: “The fact these important awards are in their third year is testament to the hard work men and boys have done in their local communities across Northampton.
“However, we cannot recognise these individuals without the help of residents who know and work with them closely, so we call on the public to get involved by nominating these valued role models.
“Coronavirus has meant this years’ awards will be virtual, but we still expect to be inundated with nominations that will help us deliver a worthy celebration of the many individuals who have made wonderful contributions to their communities.”
Councillor Stephen Hibbert, Cabinet member for housing and wellbeing, said: “In previous years we have tried to deliver a fun yet informative initiative that promotes physical and mental wellbeing among our men and boys.
“This year is no different, and we are looking forward to working with our partners to develop a full programme that is easily accessible online.”
Nominate someone you know for a Male Role Model of the Year Award – there is an option to upload a video nomination if you wish.
Nominations close on 6 November.
https://www.northampton.gov.uk/news/article/3185/male-heroes-to-be-honoured-next-month

Essex Football Association - Celebrate Essex's Footie Dads
2020-11-19 12:00 | Online
Know a ‘Footie Dad’ who encourages their star player/s to enjoy grassroots football? Then nominate them for the latest #CelebrateEssex competition category, which says a huge thank you to the local volunteers who keep the game going.
The Twitter contest helps to recognise some of local football’s unsung heroes. It showcases personal stories from Essex legends, increasing their visibility as role models to engage new members and inspiring newcomers to join the grassroots community as volunteers. Nominations are required via the @EssexCountyFA account by Thursday 12th November.
Volunteers are the lifeblood of grassroots football, putting in countless hours of their time so others can enjoy playing the game. Football needs more helpers, but it also needs to retain and recognise those already involved. Through this monthly Twitter competition, #CelebrateEssex aims to do just that, promoting ten different roles throughout the year.
November is the month of the ‘Footie Dad’ category. A Footie Dad could be due a special mention for the support they offer their son or daughter before, during or after a game. They could help to make sure they get to training safely, enjoy participating in matches and are encouraged to do their best, providing positive support afterwards… win, lose or draw.
The category has been specifically chosen to take place in November to coincide with International Men’s Day on Thursday 19th November. Future months will feature these categories: December: Football Family, January: Media Manager, February: Coach (Youth and Adult), March: Footie Mum, April: Treasurer, May: Secretary, June: Chairperson.
Last year’s Footie Dad winner was Andrew Hayden from Sporting 77 YFC, who reacted: “I’m supportive in as many ways as I can be for my son and his footballing journey, be it coaching him, watching him, taking him to Futsal sessions or taking him along to watch Colchester United. To see him smiling and enjoying football gives me enormous pleasure and fulfilment.”
“I perform my role at Sporting 77 YFC in Braintree by coaching the boys on Saturday and Sunday mornings, playing in their league format every week. To anyone thinking of doing a similar role… do it! The sheer enjoyment of seeing children smiling, enjoying themselves, making memories and developing new football skills, as well as friendships, makes it totally worthwhile!”
Stage One: Make Your Nomination on Twitter
If you know a Footie Dad who you think should receive some special thanks, anyone can make a nomination by tweeting (by 12th November):
“I nominate [Insert Name or Twitter Username] from [Insert Club/Team or Twitter Username] as @EssexCountyFA #CelebrateEssex Footie Dad because…”
State why your nominee should be the winner and be as descriptive as you can in 280 characters! It’s important to use the #CelebrateEssex hashtag to ensure your entry is registered.
Stage Two: Nominations Reviewed
Once the window closes, all the nominations received will be collated and a panel will decide which individuals will be progressed to the Twitter poll/vote…
Stage Three: Let Voting Commence!
A Twitter poll/vote will be available at @EssexCountyFA for seven days, featuring profiles of the nominees so voters can make an informed decision on who to vote for.
Stage Four: And Our Winner Is…
The winner of the poll will be contacted to be that month’s ‘Volunteer of the Month’!
Follow the #CelebrateEssex hashtag on Twitter to keep track of the competition! To find out more about volunteering in grassroots Essex football, browse the ‘Volunteers’ menu above, follow @EssexCountyFA on Twitter and search for ‘EssexFootball’ on Facebook.
#CelebrateEssex Terms and Conditions
* previous category winners are ineligible for 2020/21 nomination
* irregular voting patterns could result in the suspension of a category
Celebrating International Men’s Day in Essex
Worldwide Occasion on 19th November
On Thursday 19th November, International Men’s Day celebrates, worldwide, the positive value men bring to the world, their families and communities. Positive role models are highlighted to raise awareness of men’s wellbeing. The theme is: “better health for men and boys.”
The day is an opportunity for people of goodwill everywhere to appreciate and celebrate the men in their lives and the contribution they make to society for the greater good of all. Find out more at the International Men’s Day website.

Equation in Notts Launch #SpeakOutToHelpOut Domestic Abuse Campaign for Men
2020-11-19 12:00 | Online
Local charity Equation launch their #Speak out to help out campaign this International Men’s Day to tackle domestic abuse and mental health issues facing men in Notts.
Equation’s Domestic Abuse Service for Men (which serves Nottingham City and County), received 1212 referrals between (Oct18-Oct19). 1035 of those referrals resulted from incidents being reported to the police, with hardly any male survivors at all referring themselves prior to police involvement or intervention from health services. It is estimated that 6K men in Notts will experience abuse each year, so it’s clear that supporting them to speak out to their friends and local support services is vital.
That is exactly what #SpeakOutToHelpOut aims to achieve. The online campaign will encourage men to take to social media to highlight the issue, create safe spaces in their own networks, unpick widespread attitudes such as “real men don’t talk about that stuff – you’ve just got to man up”
Speaking out doesn’t make any man, any less of man
From speaking to men that they’ve supported via their services, Equation has learned that many of them faced barriers to accessing support or ending the abuse. Some of the examples they gave included not knowing support was available, feelings of guilt, fear, shame or not being believed, thinking the abuse is part of what is considered ‘normal’ in a relationship, hoping that things will get better, and worrying about loosing access to their children.
Many of the barriers these male survivors have spoken about are rooted societal attitudes of gender equality, toxic masculinity, stigma and shame of speaking out. When it comes to speaking out, it’s not just men experiencing domestic abuse that are impacted. Every week in the UK, 125 people take their own lives and 75% of all UK suicides are completed by men. The impacts of Coronavirus have exacerbated these already concerning figures with sharp rises in instances and severity across both issues. While barriers stem from the abuse or health issues themselves and may be hard for us to change as a society, removing the stigma of speaking out is one we can break down together as a community by encouraging men to speak out and reassuring them it’s safe to do so without fear of judgement.
“We hope that this international men’s day on November 19th, Men of Notts will take to their social media to raise awareness by sharing social content which states that they believe it is ok to talk, that they will listen without judgement, that speaking out about abuse, mental health or any other concerns don’t make any man any less of man. It’ll also spread key information about how to start and hold these conversations that so many see as awkward and challenging.”

Men's Health, is it a Taboo Subject? (Employers Network for Equality & Inclusion)
2020-11-19 12:00 - 13:00 | Online
International Men’s Day is celebrated each year on the 19th November.

About this Event

Overview
International Men’s Day is celebrated each year on the 19th November. There are 6 pillars supporting the celebration of IMD:
1.To promote positive male role models
2.To celebrate men’s positive contribution to society
3.To focus on men’s health and wellbeing
4.To highlight discrimination against men
5.To improve gender relations and promote gender equality
6.To create a safer, better world
Current research tells us that:
•Men have a suicide rate 3 times higher than women
•1 in 3 men have been victims of domestic abuse
•Men on average die 4-5 years before women
•Men are nearly 2 times as likely to suffer from lung cancer
•Men are twice as likely to suffer from heart disease
To celebrate IMD this year, enei are holding a webinar focussing on men’s health and will be joined by key specialists in this area. We will look at what are the key issues and how employers can help employees and employees help themselves.
Guest speakers to be announced.
Who Should Attend?
Head of HR, HR Directors & Managers, L&D/OD Managers, Diversity Practitioners, Business Managers & Sponsors, Network leads.
Additional information
Due to limited space and likely high demand there will be a £50+VAT admin charge for cancellations received less than 5 working days prior to the event.

Annual Men and Boys Awards (Men and Boys Coalition)
2020-11-19 12:00 - 13:00 | Online
The Men and Boys Coalition is proud to announce the launch of the First Annual Men and Boys Awards: For individuals and organisations in the UK who best represent the values and achievements to which the Men and Boys Coalition aspires.
http://www.menandboyscoalition.org.uk/newsevents/the-first-annual-men-and-boys-awards-november-2020/
The Awards will be presented on or around International Men’s Day, November 19th (exact date and ceremony details TBC).
We are now inviting nominations for:
Activist of the Year
For an individual showing outstanding achievement in providing care, compassion or social change for men and boys.
Project of the Year
For a charity, organisation or project showing outstanding achievement in providing care, compassion or social change for men and boys.
Award for Public Understanding
For a writer, academic or media creative who has made an outstanding contribution to our understanding of men and boys and their needs this year.
Diversity and Inclusion Award
For any individual or organisation that has made an outstanding contribution to combatting unfair prejudice and discrimination against men and boys in all their diversity.
Lifetime Achievement Award
For any individual or organisation that has made a significant lifelong contribution to supporting men and boys
2020 Special Crisis Award
A one-off award for the individual or organisation that has demonstrated exceptional response to the COVID-19 Coronavirus Crisis.

NOMINATION AND JUDGING RULES
Anyone based or active in the UK (whether or not an MBC member) can be nominated for any award. Anyone may make nominations.
The MBC Board of Trustees and CEO shall act as judges. The MBC Board (and any organisations they represent) may not be nominated or receive awards. The winners shall be those judged to best represent the values and achievements to which the coalition aspires.
TO SUBMIT YOUR NOMINATIONS
Please email info@menandboyscoalition.org.uk stating which awards you are nominating for and who you are nominating, with a sentence or two explaining your choice. You may make as many nominations as you wish for any or all of the awards.
DEADLINE FOR NOMINATIONS: September 30th, 2020.
The First Annual Men and Boys Awards_November 2020Download

Digital Picnic in Sunderland
2020-11-19 12:00 - 14:00 | Online
Bring your bait along to our digital lunches.

About this Event

For International Men’s day we’ll be hosting a conversation with men’s groups across Sunderland. If you’ve got mental health tips, are looking to connect with other male identifying people get your lunch ready and let’s get talking. We’ll be sharing memories of Sunderland’s lads, blokes and gents- if you have any photos, objects or stories you’d like to share we’d love to hear from you.
Women identifying guests are also welcome.
Whether you’re working from home and looking for some lunch time company, home schooling and need some respite or just want to change your schedule you’re welcome to come along, learn something and have a bite to eat.
Please note this workshop is funded by Heritage Lottery Fund.
Recommended donation is £2.00 pp – all donations will go towards the restoration of the church.(FREE to current CCT volunteers, please get a code from Lily or Tracey)

https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/digital-picnic-international-mens-day-tickets-124265600757

Barchester Shelburne Lodge Care Home - Lunch for International Men's Day
2020-11-19 12:00 - 14:00 | Barchester Shelburne Lodge, Rutland St,, High Wycombe, HP11 2LJ
Date: Thursday 19 Nov 2020
Organiser: Barchester Shelburne Lodge Care Home
Gentlemen’s club afternoon – join us in the lounge for a ploughman’s lunch with all the trimmings.
https://www.carehome.co.uk/news/event.cfm/id/1283482

Detoxifying Masculinity: The Many Ways of Man
2020-11-19 12:30 - 13:30 | Online
Masculinity is often associated with toxicity. Come along to an interactive event to discuss healthy ways men express masculinity.

About this Event

Join us for a thought-provoking event where we’ll discuss different ways men can express manhood and the effects of toxic masculinity on men’s mental health.
We’ll hear first from some great speakers on masculinity, role models and mental health, and then we’ll have an open discussion with questions from the audience.
The event will be online, is free and open to all. Once you sign up you will receive an email with joining instructions closer to the date of the event.
Confirmed speakers:
– Dr Ethiraj Gabriel Dattatreyan, Goldsmiths, University of London.
– Sarah Bodenham, The Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM)
– and many more.
Make sure you sign up today and we look forward to seeing you there.
#healthymasculinity

https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/detoxifying-masculinity-the-many-ways-of-man-tickets-106393939136?aff=ebdssbonlinesearch

50:50 in conversation with Brian Ballantyne
2020-11-19 12:30 - 13:30 | Online
The 19th November is International Men’s Day. For us here at 50:50, we’re big believers that gender equality won’t be possible without *everyone* being involved. It’s not just a ‘women’s issue’ and that’s why we’re big supporters of male allies.
We’re thrilled to be joined by Brian Ballantyne. Brian’s not only a 50:50 Ambassador, he’s also Regional Manager, Training Programs at Amazon Luxembourg. Author of Confessions of a Working Father and one of the founders of Men for Inclusion.
This International Men’s Day we’ll be exploring male stereotype threat, the challenges of having to conform to society’s idea of what a man should be and the importance of male allies in the battle for better gender balance.
Join us live at 12:30pm as we chat to Brian about his experiences and why he’s an active advocate for gender equality.
https://zoom.us/meeting/register/tJMucuGqqzkrGNyW54OyNY6d2O11sRO7bDoq?utm_content=buffer5046e&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_campaign=buffer

GEN bookclub - Robert Webb's How not to be a boy
2020-11-19 12:30 - 13:30 | Online
International Men’s Day BookClub : How Not To Be A Boy

Join us for a stimulating discussing on Robert Web’s Book; How not to be a boy.

Virtual teams event: link below
https://teams.microsoft.com/l/meetup-join/19%3ameeting_OWU3OGY4NTctMjJhOS00ZTk0LTg1MmUtZDg2ODMyYjIwMWM1%40thread.v2/0?context=%7b%22Tid%22%3a%2228b782fb-41e1-48ea-bfc3-ad7558ce7136%22%2c%22Oid%22%3a%22fcc2a04d-6af6-4bee-8bbf-9a10daced0aa%22%7d

Bucks Student Union: Strong Men "A definitive guide to masculinity, manhood, and being a man"
2020-11-19 12:30 - 13:30 | Online
To mark International Men’s Day, “Alpha males”* Dr Matthew Smith and Dr Piers Worth from the University’s Centre for Positive Psychology** explore what it means to be a strong man in the 21st-century.
Drawing upon their own experiences, those of a range of positive male role models, along with key ideas from positive psychology, Matthew and Piers will help us all to better appreciate the challenges of modern manhood and suggest how a more nuanced understanding of ‘strengths’ is key to us living our best lives, whether we are male or female. Most of all, Piers and Matthew promise to inspire and entertain in equal measure.*
*Spoiler alert: this title, and the talk itself, may well be littered with a healthy dose of irony.
This event will be hosted via MS Teams.

ITV Loose Women - International Men's Day Special
2020-11-19 12:30 - 13:30 | Television
For the first time in Loose Women’s 21-year history, the show will be rebranding as Loose Men for one day only, with an all-male panel hosting a special episode to coincide with International Men’s Day on November 19.
Marvin Humes will anchor the show and be joined by a panel of famous faces including the voice of Love Island, Iain Stirling, multi-platinum recording star Ronan Keating, and radio and TV presenter, Roman Kemp.
Earlier this year, Loose Women launched their Stand by Your Men campaign, which is part of their award-winning mental health campaign Lighten The Load. The campaign focuses on male mental health and shines a light on how important it is for men to ask for help if they are struggling.
As well as sharing their own personal experiences, the Loose Men will be delving into the biggest issues of the day and also interviewing one of Hollywood’s most popular leading men, Oscar winner Matthew McConaughey.
Marvin Humes said: “With everything going on in the world right now there’s never been a more important time for men to be open and honest about their mental health. I’m looking forward to anchoring the first ever Loose Men and raising awareness of the importance of men opening up like women do.”
Iain Stirling said: “We know that men typically find it harder to discuss their anxieties, especially with other blokes. I’m looking forward to changing the conversation and can’t wait to join the other Loose Men. Hopefully we can inspire any men watching to talk about their feelings too and not keep things bottled up. Also a huge thank you to everyone at Loose Women for allowing us to use their platform for this very worthwhile cause!”
Ronan Keating said: “I’ve long been a big fan of the Loose ladies, so it’s an honour to become a Loose Man for the day. I’m looking forward to joining Marvin, Iain and Roman and delving into all the topics, as well as tackling those important issues us blokes often shy away from talking about. It’s going to be a great show!”
Roman Kemp said: “When Loose Women asked me to join their first all-male panel, I jumped at the chance. The ladies have left us very big shoes to fill, but we’ll do them proud. I can’t wait to enjoy some classic Loose laughs and shine a light on the importance of us guys opening up about mental health.”
Loose Women editor Sally Shelford said: “We’ve had several men join us as honorary Loose Men over the years, but this is the first time we’ve handed over the entire show to the guys – and it’s for a very important reason.”
Our Stand By Your Men campaign, which is part of our award-winning mental health campaign Lighten The Load, has been raising awareness about how vital it is that men talk as openly about their struggles as we do on Loose Women. International Men’s Day is the perfect opportunity to bring that message to the forefront and our Loose Men Marvin, Iain, Roman and Ronan are just the panel to do it. They’ll also be joined by Hollywood legend Matthew McConaughey, in what’s set to be a show like no other.”
Catch the Loose Men on Thursday 19 November from 12.30pm on ITV, STV and the .
Watch Loose Women weekdays from 12.30pm on ITV, STV and the . And don’t forget you can find us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter too.

MenCheck-in : Daily Check-ins, Connection and Community
2020-11-19 12:30 - 2020-12-01 13:30 | Online
During these times of coronavirus isolation, MenSpeak men’s groups respects men’s needs for connection – to help keep us sane, grounded and real.
This mini-men’s group, facilitated by Kenny / MenFacilitate Graduates, is a non-clinical, confidential space to share, be heard, release some pressure, connect with others and get insights into daily life as we drop our ‘nice guy’, ‘macho man’ or whatever masks we’ve been wearing and get real.
Typically between 5-15 men per group, usually 20s-50s though it varies a lot and all ages are welcome and appreciated.
Please be on time and stay for the full hour. Doors open at 12.25 and close at 12.35.
You can also take part in our usual open, closed and special interest groups (MenCook, MenStretch, MenDance, MenLaugh, MenFacilitate) as usual, though EVERYTHING by MenSpeak has gone online.
Should you wish to book an online facilitator for your organisation to stay connected; or should you wish to train to facilitate your own groups, please let us know.
Please read our Ground Rules:
http://www.meetup.com/menspeak/pages/MenSpeak_Ground_Rules/
And our guidelines on joining online groups:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B8kBH5Qz8jewNFNwTy11dW1UYnc/view?usp=sharing
Please donate towards our Covid-19 Relief Fund every time you attend a MenCheck-in session, to support our work and enable us to share it with others. We suggest £5 / £10 / £15 depending on your income.
https://www.paypal.me/menspeakmensgroups

Institute of Underwriting - with Eddie the Eagle
2020-11-19 13:00 - 14:00 | Online
In celebration of International Men’s Day the IUA HR & Training Committee welcomes
Eddie The Eagle Edwards
Winter Olympian & Inspirational Speaker
Introduced by Dave Matcham, CEO, IUA
Event Chaired by Jo Sykes, UK HR Manager, IGI and Chair of the IUA HR & Training Committee
Event Date: Thursday 19 November 2020
Time: 1pm/13.00 hrs for 1 hour (UK/London time)
Subject: In marking International Men’s Day, we welcome Eddie the Eagle Edwards to the IUA, where he will address the audience on overcoming adversity, personal endurance and trusting your own ability to learn, train and improve with determination to accomplish your goals on both a personal and professional level.
This is a free event, but names and email addresses of all attendees are required for registration.
Please click here to register
Please click here to join the webinar and use passcode [REDACTED]
Please adhere to on line etiquette during our presentations. We kindly ask you to mute your microphone and video upon commencing the link and to use the Chat application for any questions, which will be addressed by the speaker at the end of the presentation. We suggest dialling in at least 5 mins before the start of the webinar.
Please note that any recording of this event will be available post-event in DropBox format, subject to speaker authorisation.
Contact: Deborah Finch, IUA Events Manager, tel. 020 7617 4451
Determination and positivity can be incredibly inspirational. Appealed by such qualities, we can learn powerful lessons from those who defy the odds and prove their capability in achieving the unattainable.
In marking International Men’s Day, which originated in Trinidad and Tobago back in 1992 to raise awareness of achievements and contributions to community and family and issues facing men globally, our event focusses on one man and his determination to succeed.
The IUA HR & Training Committee are pleased to welcome their guest speaker, Michael Edwards aka Eddie The Eagle, who came to the forefront of people’s attention in 1988 when he competed for Great Britain at the Winter Olympics. Despite coming last in the ski jump, Eddie became famous for summing up the Olympic spirit and for his determination to represent his country without any form of funding.
From plasterer to Olympic competitor, Eddie is also a qualified Lawyer, a prominent ski instructor and author. He is a keen contributor to TV and radio programmes and a Patron of Ski 4 Cancer. After retiring from ski jumping, he became the world number nine in amateur speed skiing.
We are honoured to welcome Eddie to the IUA, where he will address the audience on overcoming adversity, personal endurance and trusting your own ability to learn, train and improve with determination to accomplish your goals on both a personal and professional level (both on and off piste!)
This presentation will include film clips.
As a member of the CPD (Continuing Personal or Professional Development) Certification Service the IUA is committed to providing high quality training activities. Our market briefing events are certified as being suitable for CPD purposes. To obtain a self assessment form for any particular event please email Deborah Finch. These forms will be issued after each individual event upon request.

Network Homes and SOS to Hold Mental Health Discussion for Employees
2020-11-19 13:00 - 14:30 | Online
NETWORK HOMES AND SOS 2
INTERNATIONAL MEN’S DAY
Network Homes and SOS are delivering a private, online discussion around mental health for Network Home’s workforce.
This session will take place on 19th November 2020, which is International Men’s Day.
Please consider joining us, whatever your gender, to start the discussion about men’s emotional health.
We need to work hard to protect the emotional health of the men in our lives. The most recent statistics show that:

**In 2018, there were 6,507 suicides registered in the UK, an age-standardised rate of 11.2 deaths per 100,000 population; the latest rate is significantly higher than that in 2017 and represents the first increase since 2013.
**Three-quarters of registered deaths in 2018 were among men (4,903 deaths), which has been the case since the mid-1990s.
**The UK male suicide rate of 17.2 deaths per 100,000 represents a significant increase from the rate in 2017; for females, the UK rate was 5.4 deaths per 100,000, consistent with the rates over the past 10 years.

** Reproduced for information purposes from the ONS website who own the copyright.
View the Men’s Place page to hear personal testimonies.
This is in addition to our other session just before World Suicide Prevention Day.
Network Homes build, sell, rent and manage quality homes in thriving communities. They are an award winning housing association with over 45 years’ experience of providing affordable homes.
SOS are delighted to be part of their committment to support the mental health of their employees.
WHAT HAPPENS DURING SOS SESSIONS?
Due to Coronavirus, SOS has had to adapt how it delivers its services.
Previously, all meetings were face to face, but until it is safe to do so, we now operate online.
Our aims remain the same. To encourage people to talk. To encourage open conversation about mental health.

https://sossilenceofsuicide.org/events/network-homes-and-sos-2/

University of Manchester - Men's Mental Health Presentations
2020-11-19 13:00 - 14:30 | Online
A series of three short presentations from researchers at the University of Manchester, focusing on men’s mental health

Nicola Richards & Su-gwan Tham

Suicide by middle-aged men: Ongoing research and support by the National Confidential Inquiry into Suicide and Safety in Mental Health (NCISH)
Laura Hemming & Peer
Words don’t come easy: How male prisoners’ difficulties identifying and discussing feelings relate to suicide and violence
Dr. Maurice Nagington
Sex and drugs amongst gay men: A critical exploration of reasons for and impacts on mental health

https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/division-of-psychology-and-mental-health-international-mens-day-seminar-tickets-126046288843

Lancashire Recovery College - Recovery in Focus
2020-11-19 13:30 - 14:30 | Online
Recovery in Focus – Online
Produced in partnership with Positive Focus, this session will look at the merits of photography as a tool for maintaining well being. Photography as a hobby can help those who suffer from anxiety and depression, experience the peaceful beauty of creation. All aspects of photography can help separate you from common modern day thoughts, helping to focus and meditate on the peaceful harmony that exists in photography. Although it is nice to just visit a park or other recreational area, photography forces an individual to narrow his or her thoughts on a specific subject while blocking all else out . This forum has been developed in recognition of International Men’s Day.
The course will last one hour and will run on Thursday 19th of November at 1:30pm . The session will be run via Microsoft Teams.
Positive Focus
Positive Focus is a non profit community group constituted in 2018 where the majority of our supporters including our committee have related experience with mental health. Our core work is to support those who suffer and have suffered from mental health issues. We also provide support for carers in the same field by giving respite in the form of project courses and quality events. Based in Chorley, we serve those with issues such as depression, anxiety and isolation throughout the Lancashire area. We have grown from a group of photographers and professionals finding that our skills can make a difference in using photography as a platform to enhance one’s quality of life. Photography has been proven as a substantial aid in taking the mind to a better place with the narrative of expressing and handling one’s feelings. By separating everyday events, looking through a looking glass and capturing the wonder and splendour the world has to offer, the imagination and use of this long standing hobby can assist people to take respite from depressing thoughts. It can also lift confidence by being involved with people socially. We have the skills required and are here to help.
Lancashire Recovery College provides a learning service that works alongside experts by experience and professionals by experience, to co-produce courses that enhance wellbeing and social opportunities in your community.
This co-produced course has been developed and will be delivered alongside people who truly understand and can share their lived experience. We believe this approach captures the true values of recovery Hope, Opportunity and Control.
FAQs
*This course is run online through Microsoft Teams. There is no requirement to have Teams pre-loaded onto your device as this should download automatically when you click on the link provided. Further instructions on how to join a teams meeting will be provided in your confirmation e-mail*
FAQs
Are there ID or minimum age requirements to enter the event?
All of our courses are available to anyone over 18, please get in touch with us if you would like to attend courses and you are younger than 18, we may have other opportunities available in the near future.
Who is the course available too?
The course is available to anybody who lives or works in the Lancashire & South Cumbria area.
What will I need?
You will need a PC, laptop, tablet or phone with a camera.
How can I contact the organiser with any questions?
You can contact us on Recovery.College@LancashireCare.nhs.uk
Or call on 01772 695 365
https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/recovery-in-focus-online-forum-tickets-126050090213?aff=ebdssbonlinesearch

OutdoorDadNI: Connections Between The Outdoors And Mental Health
2020-11-19 13:30 - 14:30 | Online
A virtual talk by Enda Young
Enda Young set up the OutdoorDadNI initiative two years ago as a project to focus on the connections between the outdoors and positive mental health. He is an accredited practitioner of the Institute for Outdoor Learning (APIOL), a Leave No Trace Trainer and a Trustee and member of the Board of Directors for Lighthouse suicide prevention charity. He enjoys trail running, surfing, open water swimming and paddle boarding.

Supported by the Queen’s University Belfast: Gender Equality Office

Top Speakers at Summit with Moving Ahead and Legal & General InvestmentsSart
2020-11-19 13:30 - 16:00 | Online
This annual celebration, sponsored by Legal & General Investment Management, is an excellent way
for your colleagues to gain education and inspiration on themes such as mental health, working
families and inclusion for all. Moving Ahead’s all-digital summit offers world-class content in a highly
accessible and inclusive format.
This event has a list of great speakers.
Programme
Registration: Zoom Invite

UK Civil Service (Northern Ireland) - Talk 'Healthy Relationships’ with M.A.N - NI
2020-11-19 14:00 - 15:00 | Online
M.A.N – NI is a safe space for men to find support with crisis/life issues they are experiencing. Find out more by joining online event

About this Event

M.A N NI was founded in 1994 through the efforts of a group of local men seeking to provide a safe space for men to find support with the crisis and life issues they are experiencing. Core to their work is an ethos of prevention and intervention, recognising and supporting men and boys emotional, physical, mental, spiritual and social life experiences while striving to develop their holistic health and wellbeing.
In this second session the topic of – ‘Healthy Relationships’- Communication: Anger awareness, domestic/sexual/coercive control – Resolution and support. A Q and A session will be included.
Bookings

Stop Male Suicide - Bradford
2020-11-19 14:00 - 16:00 | Online
Celebrating and inspiring men, Challenging toxic masculinity, Addressing the issue of suicide

With the sad news that West Yorkshire has the highest male suicide rates in the country we look to refocus and celebrate the positive impact men have on and in our community in Bradford (and further afield). We will be opening the Conversation on Suicide and discussing Positive and Toxic Masculinity.
Plenary talk: The Psychology of Suicide and Why We Need Interventions
Dr Robert Dempsey. Chartered Psychologist, Senior Lecturer in Psychology, Manchester Metropolitan University.
Speakers:
Jon Royle. Chief Executive Bridge
Nasim Qureshi. Chief Executive Inspired Neighbourhoods Group
Paul Carr. Team Leader Integrated Outreach Team BDCFT and CPN
Darren Ibbetson. Musician, producer, DJ. G.O.D Sound System
Dr Prun Bijral. Executive Medical Director Change Grow Live
Andy Maddison. Health and Wellbeing Programme Manager (Alcohol, Drugs & Homelessness) Public Health England
Others To Be Confirmed.

University of the West of Scotland: A Community in Motion
2020-11-19 14:00 - 16:30 | Online
International Men’s Day in the UK is on the 19th November every year. It is celebrated around the world in at least 60 countries. International Men’s Day is a day for men and for others who care about men’s issues to come together to debate, learn about and discuss the issues that are impacting negatively on men in our society but most importantly, the day is also a chance to ask why?
This year, the three core themes for International Men’s Day in the UK are:

Making a positive difference to the wellbeing and lives of men and boys
Raising awareness and/or funds for charities supporting men and boys’ wellbeing
Promoting a positive conversation about men, manhood and masculinity

This free digital event invites you be part of the conversation that is the need to support boys and men in Scotland. In this event, we will build on the ongoing Boys to Men CPD training programme run by Graham Goulden and Professor Ross Deuchar – a digital course that equips participants with the tools & confidence to work effectively with boys & young men.
The focus of our International Men’s Day event will be on building community and how we all have a role in supporting the boys and men in our lives.
A full details of speakers will be revealed nearer the event date. This event is free to attend but advanced registration is essential.
The event will take place on Zoom and links to join will be sent out prior to the event.
If you have any questions about the event, or about the Boys to Men CPD Programme, please email cpd@uws.ac.uk.

https://cpd.uws.ac.uk/w/courses/124-a-community-in-motion-international-mens-day

Brothers in Arms Scotland - Support your Partner with Depression
2020-11-19 15:00 - 16:00 | Online
We are hosting a series of webinar sessions exclusively for our partners focusing on looking after your mental wellbeing.

Our Webinar Programme
Each webinar is lead by one of our experienced team with an open Q&A at the end to give you the opportunity to ask us anything. We have some amazing guest expert speakers lined up covering a range of exciting topics.
***November – Men’s Mental Health Webinar Series***E
How to Support your Partner with Depression – Thursday 19th November at 3 pm: hosted by Johanna Scheutzow, Business Psychologist

The signs and symptoms of depression
The causes of depression
Different forms and severities
Helpful tips for supporting others

Queen's University Belfast: Men, Family and Covid-19
2020-11-19 15:00 - 2020-11-24 16:00 | Online
MEN, FAMILY AND COVID-19: ADDRESSING THE CHALLENGES
This panel discussion will provide an opportunity to discuss the challenges that the current pandemic has posed to busy staff in Queen’s. We will discuss the mounting pressures of increasing research and teaching workloads simultaneous with the added pressures of school closures, social isolation and mental health difficulties.

https://www.qub.ac.uk/about/Leadership-and-structure/Faculties-and-Schools/Medicine-Health-and-Life-Sciences/GenderEquality/NewsandEvents/InternationalMensDay/MenFamilyandCOVID-19AddressingtheChallenges/

International Men's Day in Oxford / Abingdon
2020-11-19 16:00 - 21:30 | Hilton Garden Inn Abingdon Oxford, Marcham Road, Abingdon, OX14 1TZ, United Kingdom
About this Event
Join us in celebration of International Men’s Day and help raise money for charity.

The event will run from 4pm into the evening and include a buffet dinner.
Whilst we take the opportunity to celebrate International Men’s day, we will also take some time to reflect on some hot topics for men today.
With speakers covering subjects such as mental health, men’s health (eg Prostate Cancer) and personal styling, then this promises to be an informative and motivational, celebration event.
The planned agenda (subject to change):
4.00pm
Registration, Refreshements and Networking,
4.15pm
Speakers (being finalised):
• Creative, Brand Strategist
• Leading authority and Consultant Psychiatrist dedicated to the diagnosis and treatment of Adult ADHD
• Oxfordshire Mind – Mental Health and Suicide
• It’s a load of ‘Bollox’ Supporting Men’s Health
• Men’s styling
6pm
Networking – We will retire to the ‘cash’ bar ahead of dinner
7pm
Buffet Style Dinner
7.45p,
After dinner speaker, Conor McReynolds
Conor is a radio presenter, comedian and author. He is also a Community Ambassador for the men’s health charity, Movember, where he delivers talks and contributes to media campaigns on mental health, having lived with depression. Conor regularly works with Jericho Comedy in Oxford, supporting Oxfordshire Mind.
Fundraising Raffle and Auction.
This event is a not for profit event, kindly supported by our hosts, Hilton Garden Inn, with the majority of your ticket price and all surplus donated to Oxfordshire Mind.
Join us for what promises to be an event full of networking opportunties, critical information and inspiration to all Men and Boys on International Men’s Day.
https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/international-mens-day-oxford-tickets-93954940757
